Thank you for posting.
It sounds like you are in a difficult situation. If you are suspicious but not sure that your husband is accessing child pornography you are still able to call the Child Wise National Child Abuse Prevention Helpline for advice. They are available to listen to your concerns, even if you’re not certain, and explain what to look out for and what your options are.
We’ve listed this helpline in the section Professional help & support but you can also go to their site directly: http://www.childwise.net/Help-Advice/child-wise-national-child-abuse-prevention-helpline.html or call their (toll free) number 1800 99 10 99 but just be aware, when you do decide to call, that this helpline is only available during business hours.
I hope you have someone to talk to about the fight with your husband and what’s been going on. Please feel free to post, again, if you feel that someone here might be able to provide you with support or if you want to talk more about what’s going on.
Kind regards